The Scientific Reason Why Men Are Naturally Drawn To Specific Women
(And automatically reject or overlook others).
Throughout her life, Tanya was always told she was "amazing ", "A great catch ", "gorgeous ", and "total girlfriend material" by the guys she'd had relationships with ...
But all their reassuring words just made her feel stupid .
You see the truth was :.
Regardless of how fantastic they CLAIMED she was, they still weren't CHOOSING to build a long-term relationship with her.
For Tanya, this meant that they were either not telling the truth , or there was something else wrong with her : something so undesirable that they could not bring themselves to build a relationship her.
"It made me really feel useless " she explained . "Why am I just not enough for the guys I feel a connection with ?".
"All I want is for somebody to choose me".
This problem of what makes a person select a certain type of partner while overlooking others has plagued women for all of history .
Fortunately, science might finally have an answer to this question .
According to research published in the academic journal, "Archives of Sexual Behavior"*, men don't choose partners for "rational reasons".
Relationship and dating researcher Clayton Max told us, "It's not about ticking off all the criteria on his list of a 'ideal woman '. And a woman can't convince men to want to be with her".
As a matter of fact , Max says , when a woman attempts to persuade a man , put pressure on him , or show him just how incredible she is, it's likely to backfire, since behaviors like this signal the exact opposite of what makes a guy absolutely sure she is for him.
"The truth is" according to Max, "The decision process for guys comes down to one thing and one thing only :.
They go with partners who make them feel that hypnotic feeling of INFATUATION".
Psychologists have actually discovered that infatuation comes from a primal instinct deep within the mind ...
When a guy's infatuation instinct is switched ON , it makes no difference if she has any of the qualities he's been searching for .
They may be entirely 'incompatible' theoretically , however he'll make time for her. He'll move mountains for her . He will do what is needed to be with her .
This is because the Infatuation Instinct literally causes him to ignore everything else except for making her his .
So how does a woman activate his Infatuation Instinct ... to make him so overwhelmed with desire he's willing to do absolutely anything to show her just how much he wants her?
Check out the In-depth Video to found out now .
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